Everything I have written so far, leads perfectly to this lesson.
Be The BEST
What can I say, there is so much to this, the first draft of this which in truth was published for over a year since I got busy with other stuff and stopped working on this, had specific male characteristics which I thought about for making the best of yourself and being a man, things like looking good by going to the gym, being confident, bold, enthusiastic, non-judgemental and caring.
Yet that’s only one aspect of this, that’s only about making the best of yourself, that’s not actually about being the best, being the best is about being the best you can be in any situation and it’s about trying your hardest, it’s about not being afraid to fail, all these things I had not even comprehended when I wrote the first version of Lessons For My Kids, I was too focused on women and missed the bigger picture.
The bigger picture I now get the picture that says you need to just be the best version of yourself by giving your all to stuff, and trying your hardest, if you’re going to do something not very well what’s the point of even doing it..
Like this site, I know I mention it time and time again, but it was pointless because the lessons where badly written and poorly presented, although the core ideas were solid.
To be the best you have to accept where you have made mistakes and change and adapt, constantly, always be working towards being the best man or women you can be and you will never go wrong. Just keep moving forward, being better than you where yesterday and your golden, you really are.